ESSENTIAL SELF-DEFENSE may not be for everyone, but its one of the very best plays I've seen in a long time. Adam Rapp proved how well he understands the power of our underlying feelings of guilt and fear in his work before, and here he lays it bare by removing the naturalism so prevalent in most other plays and showing outright, who we are, how we became who we are, and why we don't always know how to handle what we've become and what society has turned us into.
The play unfolds almost like a dream. Some segments are clearly in the mind's eye (roller skates? yes please), but even these are just as far from reality as others...a first date, self-defense class, a dinner party. When I look back at portions of my life, this is how I see them. The fantasies I had co-mingle with the realities. In ES-D, Rapp presents them the same way. As if to say, look at the absurdity of what we do...how we miss the blatant truth, we convinced ourselves to believe someone else's truth. The play might be saying, the truth is so far down, you may never discover it, but the only thing covering it is hope.
Some of my favorite shows have been: Mnemonic (Complicite), Long Days Journey Into Night, Debbie Does Dallas, The Elephant Vanishes (Complicite), Where Do We Live? (Vineyard), Cloudstreet (BAM) Uncle Vanya (BAM), Autoro Uoi (National Actors Theatre), I Am My Own Wife, Cymbeline (Theatre for a New Audience), The Chairs (Complicite), Orange Flower Water (Edge), Small Tragedy (Playwrights), Honor and the River (SPF), Spirit (Improbable), Goodnight Children Everywhere (Playwrights), The Play About The Baby, Radiant Baby (Public), Last Easter (MCC), The Lightning Field (Fringe), The Laramie Project (Tectonic), 4:48 Psychosis (St. Ann's), Thom Pain, Mother Courage (Public), Four (MTC), Nocturne (NYTW), Essential Self Defense (Playwrights), Blasted (Soho Rep)